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Love, Culture, and the Complexity of Matchmaking for Second-Generation Immigrants

For second- and third-generation immigrants, dating is often more than just a personal choice—it’s a balancing act between heritage and modern identity.

The Art of South & East Asian Matchmaking: Why Ambiance Matchmaking Leads the Way in Meaningful Connections

Marriages where both partners share the same cultural or religious background tend to have stronger relationship stability due to aligned expectations and life goals.

The "Magic" City Miami: A Dream Destination for Romance

Miami, The "Magic" City, is one of the most exhilarating and romantic cities in the world for dating, offering a unique combination of culture, luxury, and more.

5 Myths About Matchmaking You Need to Stop Believing!

There are many misconceptions about matchmaking that keep people from considering it. Here are five common myths about matchmaking—and the truth behind them.

From a Rocky First Date to a Lasting Love: The Power of a Second Chance!

My story proves that sometimes, love isn’t about a perfect first date. It’s about seeing the bigger picture, embracing imperfections, and allowing connections!

The Science of Attraction: What Really Draws People Together?

We break down the science of attraction including pheromones, biology, the brain, hormones, interests, values, humor, confidence, timing and more!

Why Valentine’s Day is the Perfect Time to Rethink Your Approach to Love

Studies show that more than 40% of people feel lonelier on Valentine’s Day than on any other day of the year! Find the Love of Your Life Today!

Worst Date in 2024 & How Matchmaking Can Help You Find True Love

Why elite singles are choosing professional matchmaking services over dating apps and endless swiping.

Why It's Never Too Late to Find Love at Any Age

Learn how dating in your 40's, 50's, and 60's evolves with age. The benefits of mature relationships, love, finding you soulmate, and expert tips!

Why Elite Singles Are Choosing Matchmaking Over Dating Apps

Why elite singles are choosing professional matchmaking services over dating apps and endless swiping.

Finding Love in Sin City

There are unique realities of dating in a city, like Las Vegas, known more for its fleeting pleasures far more than lasting connections.

Become A Walking Green Flag

Here’s how you can cultivate emotional maturity in yourself and truly embody green flags

The Dating Scene in Atlanta

Find out why Atlanta was named 4th best city for singles

10 Keys to Success in a Long-Term Relationship

Based on years of experience working with couples, here are the top ten keys to success in a long-term relationship.

Fighting Can Be A Good Thing

Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but how couples handle disagreements can make all the difference.

The Unique Dating Scene of Denver

Denver, Colorado, offers a dating scene that’s as dynamic and adventurous as the city itself.

Early Dating Red Flags: Recognizing an Avoidant Attachment Style

Navigate the complexities of dating someone with an avoidant attachment style.

Date Nights in Every Chicago Neighborhood

Find the perfect spot to create the ultimate date night in any Chicago neighborhood

"My Ex is Psycho!" Avoiding Toxic Romantic Partners

Navigating the world of romantic relationships is challenging, but it becomes significantly more dangerous when you unknowingly become involved with a toxic partner.

Avoiding the 'Nurse or Purse' Trap: Love and Independence in Later Life

8 minute read In Nicholas Sparks’ poignant love story The Notebook, we witness the enduring romance between Noah and Allie, a couple who face many challenges, yet their love conquers all, old age, illness, and even death. While their tale is romanticized, it serves as a powerful reminder of the realities of aging and the […]

Children Ruin Everything

Are childless couples happier than their parenting counterparts?

Relationship Lessons Every Man Should Learn

Relationship advice offering guidance and wisdom to help you build a stronger, more meaningful connection.

AI and the Future of Dating

The integration of advanced technology into the dating world offers both exciting opportunities and potentially significant challenges.

The Love Machine Podcast with James Preece

Is AI changing the dating game?

The Economics of Marriage

Shifts in marital dynamics reveal how historical practices have influenced contemporary relationships and the increasing trend of individuals choosing to remain single.

Overcome Toxic Masculinity for Better Dating Success

Toxic masculinity not only affects men's mental health but can also undermine the development of their romantic relationships.

Finding Love in Silicon Valley: The Realities of Dating in San Jose

6 minute read San Jose, the largest city in Northern California by both population and area, is also the third-most populous city in California after Los Angeles and San Diego. With a population of 969,655, San Jose is at the heart of the booming high-tech industry known as Silicon Valley. Major global tech companies including […]

The End of Swipe Culture: Matchmaking's Modern Revival

Why is matchmaking having a renaissance in modern dating?

How To Manifest The Love You Deserve

Build the awareness, take action, and make cognitive and behavioral changes to be open and ready to receive the love you manifest.

How to Find Love in L.A.

How to navigate the unique dating scene in Los Angeles

Why Myers Briggs and The Five Love Languages Are Outdated for Modern Dating

Moving beyond outdated ideologies like Myers Briggs and The Five Love Languages allows for more meaningful and inclusive relationships.

The Strength in Showing Weakness: How Vulnerability Can Build Stronger Relationships

How embracing vulnerability can develop stronger, more meaningful connections

Balancing Success and Love: Navigating the Dating Scene in Orange County

Striking a balance between career achievements and personal fulfillment is not only possible but essential when looking for love in Orange County.

Navigating the Gray Area: A Deep Dive into Situationships

What exactly is a situationship, and how do you navigate the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating?

The Evolution of Valentine's Day and Its Lasting Impact on Dating Culture

Learn how the societal shifts, cultural influences, and technological advancements of Valentine's Day's history impacts how we express and experience love today.

New Beginnings: Finding Love After Divorce

Finding love after divorce involves navigating a journey marked by challenges and self-reflection. Explore the science behind heartbreak, better understand the nuances of the healing process, and develop a practical plan to pave the way for a fulfilling romantic future.

Unforgettable Luxury Date Ideas in NYC

These luxury date ideas promise to create unforgettable moments and combining sophistication, glamor, and exclusivity to navigate the unique dating scene of New York City

Love in the New Year: Actionable Dating Resolutions That Work

Set the following 2024 New Year's resolutions with actionable steps to develop more self-awareness, make actual plans, foster genuine connections, and create a life that attracts love naturally in this new year.

Setting Intentions for the New Year in Dating

Unlocking the path to authentic connection by delving deep into self-awareness for setting intentions for love in the New Year

Finding Love During the Holiday Season

Explore the holiday's cultural influence and the psychology behind winter romance for a deeper understanding of your pursuit of love.

Gratitude and Connection: How The Practice Of Gratitude Can Benefit Your Love Life

Learn how practicing gratitude can be a means for becoming a better potential partner when in search of love as well as cultivating more fulfilling relationships once we’ve found it.

Self-Care and Conscious Dating: A Holiday Survival Guide

The stressors associated with dating or the pressure to be in a relationship during the holidays can be overwhelming. However, with the right mindset and tools, it's possible to not only survive the holidays but thrive!

How To Make A Good Impression On A First Date

Based on data from 20,000 dates, professional matchmaker reveals how to have a great first date.

How To Emotionally Detach From A Romantic Partner

Explore the art of emotional detachment. Understand why and how to create distance in relationships for your mental well-being.

Navigating the Miami Dating Scene: Culture, Challenges, and Top Date Ideas

Uncover Miami's unique dating landscape, from its rich cultural evolution to the challenges faced by singles, plus a curated list of top date ideas.

Conscious Dating: How To Spot Green Flags While Dating

Discover how to recognize and embrace the green flags that signal genuine, intentional connections in the modern dating world.

Dating Yourself: The Most Efficient Way To Meet Your Life Partner

Learn how to date yourself so you can attract your life partner.

70 Deep Questions To Truly Get To Know Your Date

Unearth deeper connections with our guide on 70 thoughtful dating questions. Explore childhood, passions, dreams, love and more with your date.

What Women Look For In A Man When Dating

Women have experienced significant changes in their relationship needs and expectations, placing higher importance on deeper, long-lasting qualities, such as emotional intelligence and a sense of safety.

Mastering First Date Conversation

Master the art of first date conversations. Learn the simple ways to create engaging conversation that builds rapport and deepens your connection.

Navigating the Dating Culture in New York City

Discover the vibrant dating culture of New York City, explore its demographics, and uncover the services of top matchmakers.

Romantic Chemistry Explained

The 4 types of chemistry plus 10 ingredients for creating more chemistry on your dates.

How to Find a Conscious Partner

How can I attract a conscious partner into my life?

Discover the Vibrant Asian Indian Dating Scene in Austin: Top Matchmakers and Dating Tips

Discover the best Indian matchmaker in Austin and explore the vibrant Asian Indian dating scene.

17 Habits for Mastering a Successful Dating Life

17 ways to build healthy dating habits this year.

Recognizing and Overcoming the 7 Dealbreakers in Relationships

Discover the top 7 deal breakers in a relationship and learn how to address or walk away from them, ensuring a healthy long-term partnership.

The Intricacies of Orange County's Dating Culture

Discover Orange County's vibrant dating culture, unique demographics, top matchmakers, and how the tech scene influences dating in the area.

How To Get To Know Someone On A Deep Level

How to get to know someone on a deeper level to determine dating compatibility.

How Tim Ferriss Hacked His Dating Life

As Ambiance Matchmaking is based in the San Francisco Bay Area, we have been anxiously awaiting for Tim to become a guinea pig in the dating world.

Why You Shouldn't Wait To Introduce Your Date To Friends & Family

Why it's important to date in a group environment with people important to you.

Top 10 Cities In The World To Find Love

Here are the final results of the top 10 cities in the world with the best love infrastructure:

How To Get A Third Date

The following tips are ways to make it past the first and second dates, and give someone the gift of knowing you.

The Paradox Of Choice

Many singles try to date as many people as possible as to not miss out on meeting “The One," but this can lead to an insidious addiction.

Dating In Dallas: Everything You Need To Know About The Dating Culture In Dallas

Dallas, Texas is a bustling city with a thriving social scene, making it a great place for singles to mingle and find love.

Is Austin, Texas Good for Singles? A breakdown of Austin's dating culture

Statistical data shows the probability of dating success in Austin, Texas.

How To Date In 2023

How to avoid dating burnout and set yourself up for dating success in 2023.

How To Know If Someone Is Your Soulmate

Do soulmates exist and how can we decipher if someone is "the one"?

Book Club Review: Fierce Intimacy

Being in a relationship is like holding a mirror up to yourself in that it shows you your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, and triggers.

Book Club Review: Eight Dates

Our monthly book club creates a space for our community to learn, grow, and discuss new ideas centered around self-development and dating.

How To Determine Compatibility In A Relationship

While chemistry is the spark, compatibility is the glue that holds the relationship together.

The Intimacy–Desire Paradox

A satisfying relationship is built on the dynamics of intimacy and distance.

5 Ways To Apply Minimalism To Dating

A minimalist is someone who rids himself of unessential possessions in order to live a simple life.

Stop Swiping, This Is How You Meet Your Soulmate

All it takes is the motivation to learn, grow, and discover what it is that makes you tick in a relationship.

3 New Year Resolutions For Dating In 2023

3 New Year resolutions that will actually help you date smarter in 2023.

Finding "Flow" In Dating

If you are reading this article, I’m assuming you want an extraordinary life, and you want an extraordinary partner with whom to share your life.

First Date Do's and Don'ts From A Professional Matchmaker

Matchmaker reveals the secret to effective dating and the most common reasons first dates fizzle.

Why You Keep Dating the Same Type of Person

"I keep attracting the same type of person into my life."

8 Steps To Dating Effortlessly With Children

At Ambiance Matchmaking, we have many members who are single parents.

Most Important Relationship Factors For Men

“What are three characteristics that are important to you in a match?”

Rejection Is A Good Thing – Here’s Why

It is nearly impossible that every single person on this earth will like each other, that is, to actually have compatible personality traits that allow friendships and relationships to form.

Keeping Expectations In Check

Midlife relationships are also tricky because many of us have a lot of emotional baggage from 50-something years of living.

Is Your Communication Style Hurting Your Relationship?

It takes years of work and commitment to gain self-awareness.

What It Actually Means To "Just Be Yourself"

It seems as though a common response to any expression of personal angst, social anxiety, and insecurity is that we should just be ourselves, period.

Improve Your Relationships Through Self-Awareness

An important ingredient for a successful relationship is self-confidence, and an important ingredient in self-confidence is self-awareness ...

How To Date With Confidence

Scour the online dating profiles and you’ll note that most people describe themselves as having high self-confidence, and just about everyone is looking for partners who have equally high self-confidence.

How To Be Genuine In Your Relationships

Who wouldn’t want to be authentic, real, sincere, honest, truthful, straightforward, direct, frank, candid and open?

5 Ways To A Thriving Relationship

Maintaining a healthy relationship is challenging. It takes time, effort and in the midst of a chaotic, busy life it can be easy to lose sight of healthy habits, ...

Dating Without A Mask

Dating in our middle adult years, with ex’s, children, pets, mortgages, careers, and emotional, physical and perhaps even financial baggage may seem impossible.

The Vital Ingredient In Relationships

Romantic relationships are wonderful. They make us feel alive, dynamic, validated and loved – when they work.

The Power Of Vulnerability

Shame is a powerful universal emotion that often emerges when we feel deeply vulnerable about something.

How To Handle Fear Of Rejection

I am afraid of rejection, getting hurt, and becoming heartbroken.

10 Reasons You're Still Single

Are you sick of the question, “Why are you single?”

How To Be Vulnerable In Dating

In the exciting but sometimes disastrous world of dating, I often ask myself why it’s so hard to be vulnerable in a relationship.

Why Am I Still Single?

Many men and women ask themselves everyday, "Why am I still single?"

How One Couple Reignited Their Love

What happens when an unhappy arranged marriage moves to a country where divorce is not frowned upon?

How To Handle Doubt In A Relationship

Doubt can be a horrible feeling when it rears its ugly head in your relationship, especially for individuals who are ready to settle down with a partner. However, doubt can be beneficial in surprising ways.

Genuine Passion vs. Unearned Passion

The real reason people get hurt in their dating lives is by overvaluing initial passion and undervaluing investment in the relationship.

Nobody’s Perfect ... Or Are They?

How many of us have stressed out because we could not find the perfect mate?

Why Now is the Perfect Time for the Post-50’s Male

If you have been keeping up with recent news, you may have noticed all of the talk regarding the fact that the American divorce rate has declined in the last 20 years with the exception of the over 50s crowd.