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10 Keys to Success in a Long-Term Relationship
Based on years of experience working with couples, here are the top ten keys to success in a long-term relationship.
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Fighting Can Be A Good Thing
Conflict is an inevitable part of any relationship, but how couples handle disagreements can make all the difference.
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The Unique Dating Scene of Denver
Denver, Colorado, offers a dating scene that’s as dynamic and adventurous as the city itself.
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Early Dating Red Flags: Recognizing an Avoidant Attachment Style
Navigate the complexities of dating someone with an avoidant attachment style.
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Date Nights in Every Chicago Neighborhood
Find the perfect spot to create the ultimate date night in any Chicago neighborhood
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"My Ex is Psycho!" Avoiding Toxic Romantic Partners
Navigating the world of romantic relationships is challenging, but it becomes significantly more dangerous when you unknowingly become involved with a toxic partner.
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Avoiding the 'Nurse or Purse' Trap: Love and Independence in Later Life
8 minute read In Nicholas Sparks’ poignant love story The Notebook, we witness the enduring romance between Noah and Allie, a couple who face many challenges, yet their love conquers all, old age, illness, and even death. While their tale is romanticized, it serves as a powerful reminder of the realities of aging and the […]
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Summer Shading: A Summer Dating Trend to Avoid
Are you falling victim to the latest summer dating trend?
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Relationship Lessons Every Man Should Learn
Relationship advice offering guidance and wisdom to help you build a stronger, more meaningful connection.
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The Best Date Ideas in Austin Texas
6 minute read Austin, Texas, known for its eclectic music scene, unique food culture, and stunning outdoor spaces, is a city that offers an exceptional backdrop for the modern dating experience. As one of the fastest-growing cities in the United States, Austin has seen a significant shift in its demographic makeup and dating trends. Understanding […]
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Meeting Singles in San Francisco
Amidst this digital wave in San Francisco, there's a palpable desire for authenticity and meaningful connections that surpasses the algorithms.
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AI and the Future of Dating
The integration of advanced technology into the dating world offers both exciting opportunities and potentially significant challenges.
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The Economics of Marriage
Shifts in marital dynamics reveal how historical practices have influenced contemporary relationships and the increasing trend of individuals choosing to remain single.
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Overcome Toxic Masculinity for Better Dating Success
Toxic masculinity not only affects men's mental health but can also undermine the development of their romantic relationships.
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Finding Love in Silicon Valley: The Realities of Dating in San Jose
6 minute read San Jose, the largest city in Northern California by both population and area, is also the third-most populous city in California after Los Angeles and San Diego. With a population of 969,655, San Jose is at the heart of the booming high-tech industry known as Silicon Valley. Major global tech companies including […]
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The End of Swipe Culture: Matchmaking's Modern Revival
Why is matchmaking having a renaissance in modern dating?
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How To Manifest The Love You Deserve
Build the awareness, take action, and make cognitive and behavioral changes to be open and ready to receive the love you manifest.
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Why Myers Briggs and The Five Love Languages Are Outdated for Modern Dating
Moving beyond outdated ideologies like Myers Briggs and The Five Love Languages allows for more meaningful and inclusive relationships.
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Miami Matchmaker: Finding Love in a Multicultural Paradise
How does Miami's multicultural background influence love and relationships?
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The Strength in Showing Weakness: How Vulnerability Can Build Stronger Relationships
How embracing vulnerability can develop stronger, more meaningful connections
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Balancing Success and Love: Navigating the Dating Scene in Orange County
Striking a balance between career achievements and personal fulfillment is not only possible but essential when looking for love in Orange County.
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Navigating the Gray Area: A Deep Dive into Situationships
What exactly is a situationship, and how do you navigate the ever-evolving landscape of modern dating?
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Keep Austin Weird: The Dating Scene in Austin, Texas
Is dating in Austin weird? Learn about the eclectic world of Austin, Texas, where the dating scene is as diverse and vibrant as the city itself.
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Love in one of America's Finest Cities: A Guide to Unique and Memorable San Diego Dates
A guide to unique and memorable dates in San Diego, one of America's finest cities.
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The Evolution of Valentine's Day and Its Lasting Impact on Dating Culture
Learn how the societal shifts, cultural influences, and technological advancements of Valentine's Day's history impacts how we express and experience love today.
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Southern Charm With a Twist: Finding Love in Tulsa
Can you find love in Tulsa? Learn how Tulsa caters to those who appreciate finer things in life with an air of traditional and old-world charm.
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New Beginnings: Finding Love After Divorce
Finding love after divorce involves navigating a journey marked by challenges and self-reflection. Explore the science behind heartbreak, better understand the nuances of the healing process, and develop a practical plan to pave the way for a fulfilling romantic future.
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Unforgettable Luxury Date Ideas in NYC
These luxury date ideas promise to create unforgettable moments and combining sophistication, glamor, and exclusivity to navigate the unique dating scene of New York City
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Love in the New Year: Actionable Dating Resolutions That Work
Set the following 2024 New Year's resolutions with actionable steps to develop more self-awareness, make actual plans, foster genuine connections, and create a life that attracts love naturally in this new year.
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Setting Intentions for the New Year in Dating
Unlocking the path to authentic connection by delving deep into self-awareness for setting intentions for love in the New Year
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Cozy Up in Chicago: Festive Holiday Date Ideas
Check out the windy city's top holiday date night opportunities from ice skating to festive rooftop pop-up bars in igloos, Chicago has something for everyone.
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Finding Love During the Holiday Season
Explore the holiday's cultural influence and the psychology behind winter romance for a deeper understanding of your pursuit of love.
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Holiday Dating in Dallas
Learn how a mix of Texas charm and multicultural diversity makes Dallas the perfect location for potential romantic holiday encounters.
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Gratitude and Connection: How The Practice Of Gratitude Can Benefit Your Love Life
Learn how practicing gratitude can be a means for becoming a better potential partner when in search of love as well as cultivating more fulfilling relationships once we’ve found it.
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The Unique Dating Scene of San Francisco
Learn how San Francisco’s distinctive social atmosphere comes from a blend of rich history, characterized by cultural revolutions and technical innovations, coupled with an abundance of entertainment options and inventive date ideas.
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Self-Care and Conscious Dating: A Holiday Survival Guide
The stressors associated with dating or the pressure to be in a relationship during the holidays can be overwhelming. However, with the right mindset and tools, it's possible to not only survive the holidays but thrive!
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How To Make A Good Impression On A First Date
Based on data from 20,000 dates, professional matchmaker reveals how to have a great first date.
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How To Emotionally Detach From A Romantic Partner
Explore the art of emotional detachment. Understand why and how to create distance in relationships for your mental well-being.
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The Best High-End Matchmakers In Miami
Explore Miami's crème de la crème of matchmaking. Delve into the unparalleled services of Ambiance Matchmaking, Kelleher International, and Janis Spindel.
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Navigating the Miami Dating Scene: Culture, Challenges, and Top Date Ideas
Uncover Miami's unique dating landscape, from its rich cultural evolution to the challenges faced by singles, plus a curated list of top date ideas.
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Conscious Dating: How To Spot Green Flags While Dating
Discover how to recognize and embrace the green flags that signal genuine, intentional connections in the modern dating world.
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Dating Yourself: The Most Efficient Way To Meet Your Life Partner
Learn how to date yourself so you can attract your life partner.
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The Best High-End Matchmakers In Chicago
Discover the top matchmaking services in Chicago. This comprehensive guide ranks and reviews the best matchmakers in the city, from Selective Search to Ambiance Matchmaking.
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70 Deep Questions To Truly Get To Know Your Date
Unearth deeper connections with our guide on 70 thoughtful dating questions. Explore childhood, passions, dreams, love and more with your date.
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Chicago Dating Culture: Dating for Singles in Their 30s and 40s
Explore Chicago's evolving dating culture for singles in their 30s and 40s. Discover top date spots, vibrant neighborhoods, and dating demographics.
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What Women Look For In A Man When Dating
Women have experienced significant changes in their relationship needs and expectations, placing higher importance on deeper, long-lasting qualities, such as emotional intelligence and a sense of safety.
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Mastering First Date Conversation
Master the art of first date conversations. Learn the simple ways to create engaging conversation that builds rapport and deepens your connection.
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Navigating the Dating Culture in New York City
Discover the vibrant dating culture of New York City, explore its demographics, and uncover the services of top matchmakers.
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The Best High-End Matchmakers In Austin
Discover the top high-end matchmakers in Austin. Find reputable services, experienced professionals, and personalized matchmaking.
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A Man’s Guide To Understanding & Attracting Women
A guide for men to attract women, deepen their understanding of women, and use relationships as a tool to heal, evolve, and find a higher purpose.
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Romantic Chemistry Explained
The 4 types of chemistry plus 10 ingredients for creating more chemistry on your dates.
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Dating in San Diego: Your Complete Guide
Unlock the secrets of San Diego's dating scene with our ultimate guide.
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Discover the Vibrant Asian Indian Dating Scene in Austin: Top Matchmakers and Dating Tips
Discover the best Indian matchmaker in Austin and explore the vibrant Asian Indian dating scene.
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17 Habits for Mastering a Successful Dating Life
17 ways to build healthy dating habits this year.
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Recognizing and Overcoming the 7 Dealbreakers in Relationships
Discover the top 7 deal breakers in a relationship and learn how to address or walk away from them, ensuring a healthy long-term partnership.
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The Intricacies of Orange County's Dating Culture
Discover Orange County's vibrant dating culture, unique demographics, top matchmakers, and how the tech scene influences dating in the area.
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How To Get To Know Someone On A Deep Level
How to get to know someone on a deeper level to determine dating compatibility.
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How to Choose the Best Matchmaking Service in Austin: A Comprehensive Guide
Looking for the best matchmaking service in Austin? Our comprehensive guide covers everything from matchmaking costs to success rates.
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The Beginner’s Guide to Hiring a Matchmaker In 2023
Are you thinking of hiring a professional matchmaker but don’t know where to start?
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How Tim Ferriss Hacked His Dating Life
As Ambiance Matchmaking is based in the San Francisco Bay Area, we have been anxiously awaiting for Tim to become a guinea pig in the dating world.
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Why You Shouldn't Wait To Introduce Your Date To Friends & Family
Why it's important to date in a group environment with people important to you.
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Top 10 Cities In The World To Find Love
Here are the final results of the top 10 cities in the world with the best love infrastructure:
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How To Get A Third Date
The following tips are ways to make it past the first and second dates, and give someone the gift of knowing you.
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The Paradox Of Choice
Many singles try to date as many people as possible as to not miss out on meeting “The One," but this can lead to an insidious addiction.
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An In-Depth Look at the Dating Culture in Los Angeles
Dive into the vibrant dating landscape of Los Angeles with our in-depth analysis of the city's demographics, income levels, education, and social opportunities.
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How Long Does It Take To Fall In Love?
Find out how long it takes to fall in love, the three stages of love – lust, attraction, and attachment, and how hormones play a role in our relationships.
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How Do You Know You Love Someone? The Science Behind Falling in Love
The science of falling in love.
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Navigating San Francisco's Dating Culture: Tips, Trends, and Insights
The Bay’s long rooted-culture of openness and idealism is influencing dating in surprising ways.
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Dating In Dallas: Everything You Need To Know About The Dating Culture In Dallas
Dallas, Texas is a bustling city with a thriving social scene, making it a great place for singles to mingle and find love.
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How To Work On Yourself While Dating
How to find yourself while in a relationship using the practice of spiritual intimacy.
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Your Complete Guide To Valentine's Day 2023
Creative Valentine's Day date ideas plus unique gifts for him and her.
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Is Austin, Texas Good for Singles? A breakdown of Austin's dating culture
Statistical data shows the probability of dating success in Austin, Texas.
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A Look Back On 22 Years Of Matchmaking
Leslie Wardman founded Ambiance Matchmaking exactly 22 years ago when matchmaking was not yet well-known in the Western world.
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How To Date In 2023
How to avoid dating burnout and set yourself up for dating success in 2023.
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Meet Our Members
We are proud to work with some of the most brilliant minds in business, science, design, and technology.
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How To Know If Someone Is Your Soulmate
Do soulmates exist and how can we decipher if someone is "the one"?
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Book Club Review: Fierce Intimacy
Being in a relationship is like holding a mirror up to yourself in that it shows you your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, and triggers.
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How Your Money Psychology Influences Your Relationships
In this series, we’re exploring how our money psychology affects our dating lives and relationships.
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4 Ways To Date Post-Pandemic
The pandemic reminded us we are human beings, not just faces to be swiped on.
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Book Club Review: Eight Dates
Our monthly book club creates a space for our community to learn, grow, and discuss new ideas centered around self-development and dating.
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5 Outdoor Dates For The Trailblazer
After two years of living room vacations and endless Zoom calls, singles across the globe have collectively decided one thing: indoor dates are out and outdoor dates are in.
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How To Determine Compatibility In A Relationship
While chemistry is the spark, compatibility is the glue that holds the relationship together.
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Dan Smith on Masculine Feminine Polarity & Biggest Dating Challenges For Men
How masculine feminine polarity plays a huge role in chemistry and attraction, plus much more.
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Christine Chang on Biggest Dating Challenges For Entrepreneurs
The biggest challenges entrepreneurs face in dating, plus much more.
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Vanessa Ringel on Creating Romantic Chemistry
Her trainings focus on the subconscious mind and breaking free from self-limiting patterns.
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Tam Hunt on The Future Of Dating
How advances in technology and science will impact our dating culture
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The Evolution Of Modern Dating: Part 2
When the decade began, tech meant promise. It connected us in ways we could barely imagine.
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The Evolution Of Modern Dating: Part 1
It seems shocking in retrospect that we as humans could actually keep relationships going before technology.
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Are We Wired To Be Monogamous?
Are we meant to be with the same partner “until death do us part?”
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The Art of Being Present In Your Relationships
Learn how to slow down, be present, and spend time with people that bring you peace and joy.
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The Intimacy–Desire Paradox
A satisfying relationship is built on the dynamics of intimacy and distance.
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5 Ways To Apply Minimalism To Dating
A minimalist is someone who rids himself of unessential possessions in order to live a simple life.
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40+ Ways To Channel Your Energy In Quarantine
Quarantine has impacted our society in surprising ways. We have time to do the things we love ––
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Ambiance Matchmaking Featured on KJRH News
This Valentine's Day, more people are single than ever before. So, we're working for you to get tips from a dating expert.
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Stop Swiping, This Is How You Meet Your Soulmate
All it takes is the motivation to learn, grow, and discover what it is that makes you tick in a relationship.
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Ambiance Matchmaking Celebrates 18 Years In Business
It’s a fascinating time to be working in the dating industry.
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3 New Year Resolutions For Dating In 2023
3 New Year resolutions that will actually help you date smarter in 2023.
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Why Couples Drift Apart (And How To Avoid It)
Nobody ever stays exactly the same. Life experiences cause people to undergo a sort of metamorphosis.
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How Ambiance Changed The Matchmaking Industry
Ambiance Matchmaking opened its doors in 2002. To put things into perspective, the early 2000’s was a time of rapid growth in our other world;
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Ambiance Matchmaking Featured in Chicago Tribune
Matchmakers find modern fans in the digital age
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Finding "Flow" In Dating
If you are reading this article, I’m assuming you want an extraordinary life, and you want an extraordinary partner with whom to share your life.
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What Losing My Dad Taught Me About Love & Humanity
Tragedy in its many forms; heartbreak, death, illness, divorce; can be a wonderful thing.
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Behind The Scenes: Finding The Match
You asked, we’re answering. How does Ambiance Matchmaking find matches for our members?
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First Date Do's and Don'ts From A Professional Matchmaker
Matchmaker reveals the secret to effective dating and the most common reasons first dates fizzle.
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Why You Keep Dating the Same Type of Person
"I keep attracting the same type of person into my life."
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Here's Why The Majority Of Americans Are Single
Today, you can visit 27 states and find that singles are taking over the metropolises.
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Ambiance Celebrates 17 Years In Business
We cannot believe this month marks the 17 year anniversary of Ambiance Matchmaking.
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Why San Francisco Single Professionals Turn to Modern Matchmakers
Technology is being left out of the dating game as modern matchmakers continue to gain rise
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8 Steps To Dating Effortlessly With Children
At Ambiance Matchmaking, we have many members who are single parents.
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Ambiance Matchmaking featured in DatingAdvice.com
DatingAdvice.com is home to many top notch dating experts "who dispense wisdom on all things dating daily".
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Most Important Relationship Factors For Men
“What are three characteristics that are important to you in a match?”
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Ambiance Matchmaking Featured in Oklahoma City's 405 Magazine
A writer from Oklahoma City's 405 Magazine recently contacted Ambiance Matchmaking to talk about modern dating.
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Rejection Is A Good Thing – Here’s Why
It is nearly impossible that every single person on this earth will like each other, that is, to actually have compatible personality traits that allow friendships and relationships to form.
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Ambiance Matchmaking "Most Inspiring Entrepreneurs" Series
Ambiance Matchmaking to be featured in "Most Inspiring Entrepreneurs and Independent Businesses."
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Keeping Expectations In Check
Midlife relationships are also tricky because many of us have a lot of emotional baggage from 50-something years of living.
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Is Your Communication Style Hurting Your Relationship?
It takes years of work and commitment to gain self-awareness.
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What It Actually Means To "Just Be Yourself"
It seems as though a common response to any expression of personal angst, social anxiety, and insecurity is that we should just be ourselves, period.
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Improve Your Relationships Through Self-Awareness
An important ingredient for a successful relationship is self-confidence, and an important ingredient in self-confidence is self-awareness ...
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How To Date With Confidence
Scour the online dating profiles and you’ll note that most people describe themselves as having high self-confidence, and just about everyone is looking for partners who have equally high self-confidence.
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How To Be Genuine In Your Relationships
Who wouldn’t want to be authentic, real, sincere, honest, truthful, straightforward, direct, frank, candid and open?
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5 Unexpected Benefits Of Marriage
It seems that marriage is not a top priority for Americans. Having a successful marriage is “one of the most important things” in life for only
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Can Your Dateability Be Written On Your Face?
Scientists are uncovering evidence that some personality traits may in fact be written all over our faces.
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5 Ways To Rekindle Your Relationship
What if everything we know about sexual passion in long-term relationships is wrong?
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Men Confess What Baffles Them About Women
We thought it would be interesting (and humorous) to expose which womanly quirks leave men baffled.
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5 Ways To A Thriving Relationship
Maintaining a healthy relationship is challenging. It takes time, effort and in the midst of a chaotic, busy life it can be easy to lose sight of healthy habits, ...
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Dating Without A Mask
Dating in our middle adult years, with ex’s, children, pets, mortgages, careers, and emotional, physical and perhaps even financial baggage may seem impossible.
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The Vital Ingredient In Relationships
Romantic relationships are wonderful. They make us feel alive, dynamic, validated and loved – when they work.
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The Power Of Vulnerability
Shame is a powerful universal emotion that often emerges when we feel deeply vulnerable about something.
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Dating Habits Of 5 Generations
No matter your age, dating can confound us all. Love is exciting and meaningful at any age.
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How To Handle Fear Of Rejection
I am afraid of rejection, getting hurt, and becoming heartbroken.
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The Ticking Biological Clock
One sunny afternoon, my friend and I were walking through the picturesque Lincoln Park – a neighborhood rich in greenery, parks, and young families.
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How To Be Vulnerable In Dating
In the exciting but sometimes disastrous world of dating, I often ask myself why it’s so hard to be vulnerable in a relationship.
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My Boyfriend Turned Squatter
We met in a dark, dingy bar. I was wasting away my days in Oklahoma as I wait for my golden ticket to live abroad.
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How One Couple Reignited Their Love
What happens when an unhappy arranged marriage moves to a country where divorce is not frowned upon?
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Love Stories From Hopeless Romantics
Craigslist's Missed Connections section is essentially a type of personal advertisement which is posted after two people meet but are too shy or otherwise unable to exchange contact details.
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5 Unconscious Motives Behind Attraction
Men and women strive to fall head-over-heels in love, form mutually exclusive relationships, and have a happy, healthy family to call their own.
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A Phenomenology of First Loves
The phrase, “You never forget your first love” has become commonplace for a reason.
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How To Handle Doubt In A Relationship
Doubt can be a horrible feeling when it rears its ugly head in your relationship, especially for individuals who are ready to settle down with a partner. However, doubt can be beneficial in surprising ways.
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Genuine Passion vs. Unearned Passion
The real reason people get hurt in their dating lives is by overvaluing initial passion and undervaluing investment in the relationship.
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Nobody’s Perfect ... Or Are They?
How many of us have stressed out because we could not find the perfect mate?
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Why Now is the Perfect Time for the Post-50’s Male
If you have been keeping up with recent news, you may have noticed all of the talk regarding the fact that the American divorce rate has declined in the last 20 years with the exception of the over 50s crowd.
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Surprising Benefits of Hiring a Matchmaker
Working with a Matchmaker is an experience you will probably never forget.
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Long-Distance Relationships – Part II
I decided I wasn’t going to travel like I had in the past. No planes, trains, boats, buses, or automobiles – I was going to travel by foot.
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Long-Distance Relationships – Part I
What happens when you connect with someone during your travels? What if the connection is so special, it makes you wonder if you should uproot your life to be with that person?
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